Summer often brings thoughts of vacation, relaxation, and family time. But for many people, it also marks a period of significant life transitions, including divorce. Whether due to changes in school schedules, time off work, or a desire for a fresh start, summer is one of the most common seasons when couples begin or finalize the divorce process. If you are considering divorce or are already in the early stages, there are specific issues and challenges that become more pronounced during the summer months.
This blog post outlines the key things you need to know about navigating divorce as summer approaches. From co-parenting schedules to financial planning and legal timing, being informed and prepared can help you make smart decisions during a potentially stressful season.
Why Summer Is a Popular Time for Divorce
There are several reasons why people initiate or focus on their divorce during the summer.
First, families with children often prefer to begin the process during a time when school is not in session. This minimizes disruptions to their children’s routines and allows more flexibility for scheduling legal meetings, counseling, or even temporary living arrangements. Parents may also want custody decisions resolved before the new school year begins in the fall.
Second, many people take time off work during summer, which provides more availability to meet with attorneys, gather necessary records, and focus on personal matters. It can be easier to coordinate schedules when you are not dealing with the daily pressures of work and school.
Finally, the idea of a fresh start is appealing. After months of reflection during winter or spring, some individuals see summer as the right moment to move forward and begin a new chapter.
Preparing for Divorce in the Summer: Timing Matters
If you are planning to file for divorce or expect that your spouse will, it is important to consider the timing of your decisions. The Texas divorce process begins when one spouse files an Original Petition for Divorce. From that moment, a mandatory waiting period of 60 days begins. This means the court cannot finalize your divorce until at least 60 days have passed from the date of filing.
If you want to have your divorce resolved before the fall, especially if custody or school-related decisions are involved, it is wise to file early in the summer. Keep in mind that court calendars can fill quickly, and summer vacations may impact the availability of both attorneys and judges. Starting sooner allows for greater flexibility and helps avoid rushed or last-minute decisions.
Custody and Summer Schedules
Child custody and visitation often become more complicated during the summer. The standard possession order in Texas allows the noncustodial parent an extended period of time with the child during summer break. This extended summer possession must be planned and communicated in advance, with specific deadlines to notify the other parent.
If you are newly separated, you will need to work out a summer schedule that complies with your court order or temporary parenting plan. If you do not yet have a court order, you should still try to reach an agreement in writing and consider filing for temporary orders to establish clear guidelines. These orders help prevent conflict, confusion, and disruption for the children.
Be sure to discuss and document summer travel plans, including who will pay for transportation, how the child will be picked up or dropped off, and what communication will look like while the child is away. Disagreements about these details are common, so it is best to address them proactively.
Vacations and Travel Restrictions
Summer is a popular time for family vacations, but travel becomes more complicated when parents are divorcing or separated. Some custody orders include geographic restrictions that limit where a parent can take the child without prior written consent. If one parent wants to take the child out of state or out of the country, they may need permission from the other parent or the court.
Make sure to check the terms of any existing orders before making travel arrangements. If there are no current orders in place, it is best to reach an agreement with the other parent in writing. If agreement cannot be reached, a motion can be filed with the court requesting permission to travel.
Do not assume that travel is allowed without confirming the legal requirements. Violating a court order related to travel or possession can lead to serious consequences, including being held in contempt of court.
Managing Emotions and Expectations
Divorce during summer can trigger strong emotions, particularly when it coincides with holidays, birthdays, or traditional family vacations. Parents may struggle with the idea of being away from their children during summer holidays, and children may feel anxious or uncertain about changes to their summer plans.
It is important to approach this time with patience and clear communication. Children thrive on stability and predictability. Talk openly with them about what changes to expect and reassure them that both parents are working together to create a positive experience. Avoid arguing or blaming the other parent in front of the children. Keep the focus on the child’s needs and well-being.
Adults can also benefit from support during this time. Consider speaking with a therapist or counselor to help manage stress, anxiety, or grief. Surround yourself with friends or family who can offer emotional support and practical help.
Financial Planning During Summer Divorce
Divorce can significantly impact your financial situation, and summer adds another layer of complexity. Vacations, camps, and increased childcare costs can quickly strain a household budget. If you are separating households, you may need to manage two sets of bills on the same income. Preparing in advance can reduce financial stress and give you a clearer picture of your options.
Start by gathering financial records, including tax returns, bank statements, credit card statements, mortgage documents, and retirement account information. Knowing your financial position helps your attorney advise you on realistic expectations for property division, support, and budgeting.
If you share joint accounts with your spouse, be cautious about how funds are spent. Texas law places certain restrictions on financial activity during divorce, especially once a case is filed. You may be required to follow standing orders that prohibit large purchases, withdrawing significant funds, or altering insurance policies without agreement or court approval.
Consider Temporary Orders
In many Texas divorces, one of the first steps is to request temporary orders from the court. These are short-term arrangements that remain in effect while the divorce is pending. Temporary orders can cover custody, child support, spousal support, possession of the family home, and other critical issues.
Having clear temporary orders in place during the summer provides structure and helps reduce disputes. If you are concerned about your spouse’s behavior, financial control, or parenting decisions, temporary orders can offer important protections while the case moves forward.
Mediation and Settlement
Summer is also a good time to explore mediation or alternative dispute resolution methods. Mediation allows both spouses to work with a neutral third party to reach agreements outside of court. It is often faster, less expensive, and less confrontational than traditional litigation.
With more flexible schedules during the summer, spouses may find it easier to commit the time needed to reach settlement. If you can resolve key issues such as custody, property division, and support through mediation, you can avoid a lengthy court process and move forward sooner.
Be sure to consult with your attorney before attending mediation. They can help you prepare, identify your priorities, and ensure that any proposed agreement is fair and legally enforceable.
Planning for the Fall
As summer winds down, parents must prepare for the return to school. Divorce-related decisions made during the summer can have lasting effects, especially when it comes to custody and child support. Courts look at each parent’s involvement in the child’s life, ability to co-parent, and history of communication when making long-term decisions.
Stay involved in your child’s summer activities and education planning. Keep records of your time with the child, attendance at events, and communication with the other parent. Demonstrating consistency and responsibility can strengthen your position in court, especially if a custody evaluation or hearing is pending.
Also, plan for back-to-school expenses and responsibilities. Will both parents contribute financially? Who will attend school events or manage homework? Addressing these questions early prevents confusion and conflict later.
Consult an Experienced Family Law Attorney
Divorce during the summer has unique challenges and opportunities. Working with an experienced Texas family law attorney ensures that you are fully informed and supported at every step. Your attorney can help you:
- Understand your rights and obligations
- Draft or review temporary orders
- Prepare for custody or support proceedings
- Ensure compliance with legal timelines
- Negotiate favorable outcomes through settlement or mediation
Having professional guidance gives you peace of mind and helps you avoid costly mistakes. The sooner you speak with an attorney, the more options you have and the better prepared you will be to protect your interests.
Final Thoughts
The decision to divorce is never easy, but entering the process with awareness and preparation can make a significant difference. Summer may seem like an unusual time to begin such a major life change, but it often provides the best opportunity to lay the groundwork for a smoother transition.
By understanding how timing, custody, travel, finances, and legal procedures intersect during the summer months, you can navigate divorce more confidently and effectively. Whether you are ready to file or simply weighing your options, taking action now ensures you are not caught off guard later.
If you are considering divorce this summer, reach out to a trusted attorney who can guide you through the process and help you make informed decisions for your future. Your peace of mind and your family’s stability are worth the effort.
At Griffin, Cain & Herbig, Attorneys at Law, PLLC, we assist clients throughout Montgomery County, including Conroe and The Woodlands, in managing the complexities of divorce with clarity and confidence. Whether you are facing questions about custody, property division, summer parenting schedules, or financial planning, our team is here to guide you through every step of the process with personalized support and experienced legal counsel.
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