Post-Divorce and Custody Modifications In The Woodlands: When And How to Make a Change
Divorce is rarely the final chapter in a family law case. Even after a divorce decree is finalized or custody orders are signed, life continues to evolve—and sometimes, legal agreements must evolve with it. Whether you’ve experienced a job change, relocation, new financial circumstances, or growing concerns about your child’s well-being, modifying your existing divorce, custody, or support orders may be necessary.
At Griffin, Cain & Herbig, Attorneys at Law, PLLC, we help clients in Conroe, The Woodlands, and throughout Montgomery, Harris, Walker, and Grimes Counties revisit their family law orders when life changes demand it. We provide trusted, experienced legal representation in modification cases, whether you’re seeking changes—or fighting against them.


Understanding Modifications: What Are They And Why Do They Matter?
A modification is a legal change to a prior court order. In Texas, divorce decrees and custody orders are binding. However, the law recognizes that the needs of families, especially those with children, change over time. Modifications allow parents and former spouses to adjust those legal agreements to better reflect current realities.
Common orders that may be modified include:
- Conservatorship (custody) orders
- Possession and access (visitation) schedules
- Child support obligations
- Medical and educational decision-making rights
- Spousal maintenance (in some cases)
Without a court-approved modification, both parties remain legally bound to the original order—even if circumstances have clearly changed.
Who Can Request A Modification In Texas?
Either parent or a conservator (guardian) can request a modification of a court order, provided they can demonstrate a material and substantial change in circumstances. In some cases, a child over 12 years old may also have a voice in certain aspects of the process, particularly when requesting a change in primary residence.
To initiate a modification, you must file a petition to modify the parent-child relationship or another appropriate pleading in the same court that issued the original order, unless the case has been transferred.

Legal Grounds For Modification: What Qualifies?
Texas courts will not change an order simply because one party is unhappy. The court requires evidence of a significant, lasting change in circumstances that makes the original order unworkable, unjust, or contrary to the best interests of the child.
Here are some common reasons individuals request a post-divorce or custody modification:
1. Change In Income
A substantial increase or decrease in either parent’s income may justify a change in child support. This includes:
- Job loss or demotion
- Promotion or new employment with higher pay
- Retirement
- Business income fluctuations (for self-employed parents)
Child support may also be reviewed automatically every three years if the support amount differs by 20% or $100 from what would be ordered under current guidelines.
2. Relocation
If one parent plans to move—especially outside the geographic area specified in the original order—it may trigger the need for modification of custody and visitation terms. Courts will evaluate how the move affects:
- The child’s school and social environment
- Parenting time and transportation logistics
- The relationship with the other parent
3. Change In Child’s Needs
Children’s needs change as they grow. A court may modify orders when a child develops:
- Medical issues requiring new care arrangements
- Educational or behavioral needs requiring closer supervision
- A strong preference (if age 12 or older) to live with the other parent
4. Parental Misconduct Or Neglect
Courts take allegations of abuse, neglect, domestic violence, or substance abuse seriously. If a parent poses a risk to the child or has violated key terms of the order (e.g., repeatedly missing visitations or refusing to return the child), modification may be warranted.
5. Violation Of Court Orders
Repeated violations of visitation, decision-making authority, or support payment obligations may justify a change. The court may enforce existing orders or revise them if compliance continues to be an issue.
6. Remarriage Or Changed Household Composition
New spouses, stepchildren, or changes to the household dynamic can impact custody or visitation arrangements. If the environment has changed dramatically, a judge may revisit custody terms.
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Modifying Child Support: Key Considerations
Child support is one of the most frequently modified elements in family law. Texas has strict rules regarding when and how support can be changed. Modifications are often sought for:
- Job loss or change in income
- Increase in parenting time
- Changes in custody arrangement
- The birth of additional children
It’s important to remember that until a court officially modifies your support order, you remain legally obligated to follow the existing terms. Failing to pay because you “can’t afford it” without legal modification can lead to enforcement actions, including wage garnishment or even jail time.
Modifying Child Custody And Visitation Orders
Texas law allows courts to modify custody (conservatorship) and visitation (possession and access) orders when:
- There’s been a material and substantial change in circumstances
- The change is in the child’s best interests
- At least one year has passed since the last order (with some exceptions)
In some cases, courts will allow custody modifications before the one-year mark, such as when:
- The child’s environment is harmful or dangerous
- The primary parent agrees to the change
- The child (over 12) requests the change and it’s in their best interest
Modification By Agreement
Not all modifications require a legal battle. If both parties agree on the need for a change, the process can be relatively straightforward. The parties can sign a modification agreement, and the court will usually approve it—assuming it meets legal requirements and serves the child’s best interests.
Our lawyers can draft clear, enforceable agreements that avoid common legal pitfalls and ensure that your modified terms are court-approved.
Contested Modifications: When You Disagree
When parents or former spouses do not agree on the proposed changes, the matter must go to court. The person requesting the modification bears the burden of proof and must convince the court that:
- Circumstances have changed significantly, and
- The proposed modification is in the best interest of the child
These contested hearings can be emotionally and legally complex. You may need to present:
- School records
- Medical records
- Witness testimony
- Documentation of income changes
- Evidence of misconduct, abuse, or parental alienation
Our attorneys prepare comprehensive legal strategies and present your case effectively in mediation or trial.
The Legal Process: What To Expect
Here’s what typically happens in a Texas modification case:
Step 1: File A Petition
We begin by filing a Petition to Modify in the appropriate court. This document outlines the current order and explains the changes you are requesting.
Step 2: Serve The Other Party
The opposing party must be formally notified unless they have signed a waiver or agreed to the changes.
Step 3: Temporary Orders (If Needed)
In urgent situations (e.g., danger to the child), we may request temporary orders to immediately change custody or stop visitation while the case is pending.
Step 4: Mediation Or Settlement
Many courts require mediation before trial. If the parties reach an agreement, the court can approve and finalize it without a hearing.
Step 5: Trial
If no agreement is reached, the case goes to court. Each side presents evidence, and the judge issues a ruling.
How Long Do Modifications Take?
Timelines vary depending on whether the case is contested. Simple agreed modifications may take 2–3 months, while contested cases can last 6 months or more, especially if expert evaluations, home studies, or complex evidence are involved.
Opposing A Modification
Just as we help clients request changes, we also represent clients who need to oppose a proposed modification. If your co-parent or ex-spouse is trying to change the custody, visitation, or support order in a way that would harm your child or violate your rights, we’ll fight to preserve your current arrangement.
We can challenge their legal basis, present contrary evidence, and cross-examine witnesses. You don’t have to go through this alone.
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Frequently Asked Questions About Modifications
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